Best Hard to Find Gifts

Many guys have the erroneous belief that they need to bring a gift for a woman on the first date. In fact I often receive emails asking about different first date gift ideas a guy should offer a woman.

To be honest, I always cringe when I receive a question like this. What I picture is a guy decked out in a fancy new clothes excitedly waiting to give his date a bouquet of roses. What the guy never expected is how getting a gift on the first date is the last thing she wants you do.

So the answer to the “perfect first date idea” question is this: On your initial date, do NOT get her a gift. In fact, I think giving a woman on your initial date is one of the worst mistakes you could make. Let me tell you why…

Men and women have completely different viewpoints about the first date. Most men get really excited about this date and worry about making a great first impression. They already have feelings for this woman and hope it’ll go well. So the logical thought is to get a gift in the hopes of improving their chances for success.

Now let’s take a look at how women view the first date. First off, most women are excited about this date, because there is a chance that they might be meeting an interesting guy.

Notice the key word here- MIGHT. A woman will go on a first date to find out if there is a connection to this guy. But she hasn’t made a decision about him. What she’s looking for is some sort of chemistry.

So instead of automatically liking this guy, a woman will typically look for a spark of attraction to her date. What’s funny is this is not a logical emotion. Instead it’s an emotional response or “attraction” to the right guy.

What does this have to do with bringing a gift on the first date?

Well it’s simple. When you’re on the first date, the LAST thing you want to do is to bring her an expensive gift. When you do this, you’re basically showing that you already have feelings for her and desperately want her to like you.

If you bring a present on the date, you’re complicating things. Before a woman has decided if she’s interested in you, you’re bombarding her with gifts and expressing your feelings. The end result is you’ll make her feel uncomfortable because she doesn’t know how she feels about you.

Instead of getting her a gift, look at the date the same way she does. Use this time to qualify HER. Find out if she’s worth dating. Even if she’s a good looking girl, you should work hard to find out if there is an emotional connection.

Just remember that dating comes down developing mutual attraction between you and a woman. If you concentrate on building attraction and chemistry instead of trying to impress her, you’ll dramatically increase your chances of having a great first date.

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When it comes to the art of giving, a gift of clothes is fraught with peril. We all have stories to tell, and if you don’t, you will. Just give it time.

Mine started early. My grandmother, having survived the Depression, knew how to stretch a dollar. Clothes for her grandkids were always purchased 3 or 4 sizes too big so we could “grow into them”. And she passed this charming trait on to my mother. So, we endured our baggy clothes, with the sleeves and pant legs rolled up, until we were finally big enough to wear them with dignity. By which time they were ready for donation.

Then there’s my husband. Heaven forbid I should try to give the man a Polo shirt with an uneven hemline. Most Polos are made longer in the back to help them stay “tucked”, but hubby goes un-tucked — always. He rejects any polo that breaks the rule, no matter how subtly. For an otherwise easy-going guy, his behavior is almost perverse.

If you must give clothes this season, there’s one giftee on your list who’s sure to look great in any outfit you buy him. He’ll wear your gift with pride and appreciation, head held high and tail wagging.

That’s right, your dog. Or your best friend’s dog. It’s so easy you’ll wonder why you didn’t think of it before.

Dogs love any kind of attention you lavish on them. So, Spike will wear his outfit - whether it’s cute or ridiculous - as soon as he sees how happy it makes his owner. Spot will eat up all that extra attention he gets from strangers. And Fifi might even want to Vogue for the camera.

Clothes shopping for dogs is a lot like clothes shopping for babies. Unless you’re going for practicality, cuteness is what counts. And that’s easy to accomplish, given that any dog wearing clothes looks pretty darned cute.

Choices in dog clothes range from winter sweaters to football jerseys and summer tees. You can get a set of flannel PJ’s for bedtime or a terry robe for after bath. There’s even an entire line of Harley clothes for dogs, complete with leather cap and studded collar. Dog costumes made for parties and holidays are just too cute for words.

If you really want your gift to be a hit with admirers, accessorize. Try a designer dog collar and maybe a cool pair of sunglasses–they make them just for dogs. And I recently heard that leg warmers are making a come back.

Got a mischievous sense of humor? Making the baby look silly might be a no-no, but it’s good clean fun when it comes to dressing up a dog. There are some really creative doggie costume out there that are good for a chuckle or two.

There’s really only a couple of rules you’ll need to keep in mind when shopping for dog clothes: One is that if the dog in question is an avid chewer, you should avoid buying him anything tempting. Shiny buttons, fringe, and feathers are examples that come to mind. An object that can easily be chewed off and swallowed is a choking hazard and can get stuck in the dog’s digestive tract.

The other rule is that any dog, no matter how tolerant, will be more comfortable wearing clothes that fit. Proper fit typically requires measuring from the dog’s collar to the base of her tail for length. Most garment’s girth can be adjusted with velcro tabs, but could still be an issue with a barrel-chested breed such as a bulldog. Measurements are typically in inches.

Remember that a dog will never “diet down” into an outfit that’s too small , or — unless you’re shopping for a puppy or a pregnant female — “grow into” an item that’s too big. (Sorry, Grandma.)

Oh, and one more thing–if you’re handy with a sewing machine, you can make your own dog clothes creations. Just don’t forget to include an opening for the dog to relieve himself. Don’t laugh, it happens a lot!

Now, if you’re shopping for your own dog, you’re all set. But if you’re buying clothes for someone else’s dog, I’ve got a few more tips for you.

Surveys conducted on the subject of gift preferences of men and women have shown that men prefer gifts that are more playful or practical. So, if the dog’s owner is male this might translate into a doggie Harley jacket, a funny costume, or a reflective hunting vest (more on practical clothing in another article!).

Women, on the other hand, prefer gifts that are beautiful, memorable, and personal. It shouldn’t be hard to find an item of clothing for a woman’s dog that’s either beautiful or memorable or both, and it will of course be personal!

Exception: if the woman is someone you don’t know well. The more distant the relationship between giver and receiver, the riskier it is to give a personal gift. So, be they man or woman, if you don’t know the dog owner very well, you probably shouldn’t be buying dog clothes for their pet.

I hope you’ll have fun picking out something nice for the canine on your shopping list. If you get a chance, send me a photo!

© 2004, Carolyn Schweitzer. Lifelong dog-lover, power-shopper, and former family dentist Carolyn Schweitzer is owner and editor of Great-Dog-Gift.com . If you need inspiration for dog clothes, stop by. The site offers a wide range of choices for dog gift shoppers, plus shopping and gift-giving tips. (Also advice on dog care and feeding.) She’s always looking for new dog gift ideas and dog stories to share with her readers. You can reach her by email at netbrainer@verizon.net.

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Mother’s day is coming up and whether you’re a son or daughter or a loving husband, perfect Mother’s Day gifts are always hard to find. This year, why not go for the classic and simple gift of chocolate. A woman, especially a mother, can never get enough of the sweet, creamy, and delicious treat and you’re sure to put a smile on her face. It’s also a great item to set next to a beautiful piece of jewelry as well. She will love it.

Now, the second problem you might face is what kind of chocolate to buy to fill your basket. Sun Maid Milk Chocolate Covered Raisins are a perfect item to add to your list of chocolaty gifts. They are healthier than most chocolates and are also lower in fat. Thirty pieces are only one hundred and seventy calories. These treats are also fairly affordable at around fourteen dollars per 51 ounce jug.

Of course, just one item isn’t enough, so you might also want to pick up some of the classic “sign of love” chocolates, Hershey’s Milk Chocolate Kisses. These little candies will melt in her heart, not in her hand, and they’ll put a smile on her face every time. You can even go to their website and personalize the tag that comes out of the top that says “I love you” or “kiss me.” Plus, there are so many flavors to choose from, including the regular milk chocolate, the special dark, the caramel filled, the peanut butter filled, and the hugs spirals. These kisses come in servings of nine and are only 270 calories per serving and are even more affordable than the chocolate covered raisins.

The thing that will put this basket over the top is a large box of Dove Organic Chocolates that are healthy and delicious. This chocolate box has an assortment of amazing different types including milk chocolate, dark chocolate, and a new citrus spice flavor that has a kick to it. Dove has a great reputation of making delicious gourmet chocolates at an affordable price. They use only the best organically grown cocoa beans for their chocolates. At around $8.50 per box of 48 pieces, it fits smoothly into your budget as well.

A chocolate basket filled with all these creamy treats will definitely make it a memorable Mother’s Day and she will feel special every time she bites into a piece.

Caitlina Fuller is a freelance writer. Of course, just one item isn’t enough, so you might also want to pick up some of the classic “sign of love” chocolates, Hershey’s Milk Chocolate Kisses These little candies will melt in her heart, not in her hand, and they’ll put a smile on her face every time. The thing that will put this basket over the top is a large box of Dove Organic Chocolates that are healthy and delicious.

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Most brides follow the customary practice to present each of her attendants with a bridesmaid gift. Usually this gift will consist of a small token of appreciation such as bridal jewelry, a picture frame, jewelry box, or a tote bag. Because the maid of honor takes on more responsibilities than the bridesmaids, her gift may vary slightly from the others. Can a bride acknowledge her maid of honor’s hard work without making her bridesmaids feel slighted? Let’s explore some possible gift ideas that are suitable for a maid of honor but not so extravagant that it will outshine the bridesmaids.

It is apparent that a maid of honor plays a very important role in helping the bride plan her wedding day. Not only is she responsible for communicating wedding related topics to the other bridesmaids, but also she is also responsible for planning the bridal shower and/or bachelorette party. With this said, every maid of honor deserves something extra special in the way of a bridesmaid gift.

Bridal Jewelry

If a bride elects to buy bridal jewelry for her bridesmaids as a gift of appreciation and to wear on the wedding day, she might consider choosing a more detailed jewelry set for the maid of honor. For example, the bridesmaids may wear a single strand of pearls while the maid of honor wears a double strand.

Tote Bag

Personalized gifts are always fun. A monogrammed tote bag is a wonderful bridesmaid gift idea. There are a few ways that a bride can personalize a tote for her girlfriends. She might consider having the phrases “Bridesmaids” and “Maid of Honor” stamped on the bag. This option will distinguish the maid of honor from the other girls. She might also elect to have their names or initials embossed on the tote. Another alternative for the maid of honor is to place an extra token of appreciation inside of her tote bag.

Picture Frame

A special way to honor a bridesmaid is to give her a picture frame with an inserted photo of the bride and herself. A double picture frame would be a nice alternative for the maid of honor. The bride may include two photos or leave one side of the frame blank for the maid of honor to choose her own photo to insert.

There are several ways to acknowledge the maid of honor’s hard work without overshadowing the bridesmaids. As long as a bride puts thought and time into choosing the appropriate bridesmaid gift for each of her girlfriends, they will be much obliged.

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Let me start this by answering the question “who is the easiest to buy for?” so we can eliminate this category. I believe children and kids are by far the easiest to buy for. It is safe to assume that all kids love toys and games. The vast array of new and interesting toys that come to the market each year makes this an easy task when it comes to Christmas shopping for children.

That brings me to the hardest group of people to buy for. I find that buying gifts for your “other half” and siblings are always the hardest. There is always the quest to find something cool, original or unusual so that he or she will be impressed by it. In this article, I would like to highlight some of my favorite gifts that fall into three very popular categories - “unusual and unique”, “fun and novelty gifts” and “useful and practical” presents.

Unusual and unique gifts: Stealth Tyvek wallets which come in various designs are great as they appeal to both male and female. These wallets, made of tyvek are literally indestructible! They are extremely light and easy to carry around in your purse or inside a back pocket for the boys. I also like Mopods. These are cell phone accessories that are cute and serve a useful purpose. MoPods are little characters that spin and flash to alert you to a call on your GSM phone. This way, you can keep your phone in a bag or pocket, with the ringer turned off, but still know when you’re receiving a call. The Version 2 Mopods with new characters are now available in the market. My third recommendation is the T-Equalizer shirt. It is the ultimate in Geek Chic for music and party loving people. These electro-luminescent design T-shirts have an EQ panel connected to a battery pack which is sound activated. This makes a great gift for a teenage brother or boyfriend. Last but not least, if your partner is a football or baseball fanatic, how about giving him or her a Personalized Sports History Book. The book provides a wonderful insight into your favorite team, their history, the high and lows, the inside stories, the gossip as documented in the New York Times and presented in a beautiful leatherette book gold embossed with the recipient’s name. This is truly a unique and personal keepsake gift.

Fun and novelty gifts: There is a huge selection of funny and novelty gifts available. Here are some of my favorites. Wind up racing grannies and fighting granddads are great novelty toys that are guaranteed to make anyone laugh. Wind up the grannies and watch them race each other. Wind up the fighting granddads and watch them give each other a wack on the head The Poo-pooing candy dispensers that come in Santa, reindeer and snowman characters are just hilarious and a must for this year’s stocking! If you are looking for something different for that person who has everything, a deed to a piece of America is a unique novelty gift with an element of “humor” about it. Your boyfriend or husband is sure to be thrilled with this unusual opportunity to Own a Piece of America with a personalized DEED TO THE UNITED STATES. It’s a one-of-a-kind collector’s item that will be cherished for years to come.

Useful and practical gifts: These gifts tend to be things for the home. The Jellephish Mood Lamp that flashes numerous shades is a sleek piece of contemporary lighting. This unique gadget which was first introduced in the UK is now available in the USA. If you have money to splash around other useful and practical gifts are Tevos, music players, digital photo frames and digital cameras. However, if one is strapped for cash something like a favorite CD or DVD works well. Finally, don’t be afraid to throw in things like slippers and pajamas for those winter months or get your partner some stylish clothing. This is your opportunity to dress him or her in something you like.

If you are still stuck or feeling totally uninspired try asking for his or her Christmas wish list. Of course, the element of surprise is reduced but at least you know you will get the right gift. Why not combine a surprise gift with something on his wish list this Christmas?

Alice Duong is the owner of MyRedPacket.com and writes articles on Gifts for all Occasions. MyRedPacket is a unique online Gift and Gadget shop with a good selection of Christmas Gifts

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Gender stereotyping starts even before a child is born. As friends and family buy gifts for an upcoming birth, color choices are often limited to pale green or yellow if the baby’s gender is to be a surprise. If the baby’s sex is known, or after the child is born, pale pinks and small flowers adorn newborn girls’ clothing, while light blue with trucks and sports insignia adorn newborn boys’ clothes.

An attempt to find gender neutral clothing, unisex, or bright colored clothes for babies and toddlers can result in frustration. The clothing exists and boutiques do carry them, but the selections are often limited. Children’s clothing should represent the spirit of childhood: fun and exciting, colorful and unique. Children’s clothing should not begin to stereotype children prior to their ability to determine their own likes and dislikes. This does not mean dressing boys in pink lace and girls in black, it means providing a range of colors and options.

There are some wonderful children’s boutique clothing with colorful, unisex designs. It can take some time and perseverance to find these clothes, but there are sources available for busy parents and shoppers.

Finding high quality, gender neutral and unique baby clothes can be a challenge, but hopefully not as difficult as it once was!

Breaking with the current trends, while still being fashionable, Polkadot Patch Boutique opened in April 2006. Online at polkadotpatch.com, parents looking for unique, whimsical and bright colors, as well as fun gender neutral clothing will find a growing selection at one, convenient location. While you will still find pink and blue, black and brown, unless it is bright, whimsical or unique, Polkadot Patch Boutique will not carry it.

For fun bright colored baby clothes see the Cow & Lizard line featuring turtles, fish, and caterpillars. For something a little more funky, take a look at the “Zoot” the Bee or “Algernon” the Fox on the long sleeve shirts, with matching striped pants and hats from Tiny Tyrants.

Marianne Mullen is Co-Owner of Polkadot Patch Boutique , a speciality boutique featuring colorful children’s clothing, accessories, and gifts.

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If you’ve got kids, then chances are you’re well aware that they love to get the most popular toys for Christmas. The hard part is working out what’s the “in” toy this year! Your kids know, and if you’re lucky they’ll tell you, but most of the time parents are totally clueless and have no idea what to buy when they get to the shops. Even worse, buying the most popular gifts in town isn’t always easy - they can be hard to find. If you’re a last minute shopper, and are racing around the shops on December 24th, you might even find that it’s sold out completely. It’s very easy to panic at that point! Most parents hate to disappoint their kids, and if they can’t find that one special gift, they may feel as though they’ve let their child down.

Some parents try to avoid getting caught up in all the commercialism and hype of Christmas. Getting the most popular Christmas gifts under the tree on Christmas morning might be nice, but it’s really not what Christmas is meant to be about. That still doesn’t change the fact that receiving a special gift is part of the magic of Christmas, because it shows someone cared enough to think about what you would like and buy it for you.

Many parents may be able to remember the “Tickle Me Elmo” Christmas a few years ago. It seemed like every child wanted one of these, and stores ran out of them well before Christmas. Chaos resulted, and there were plenty of disappointed kids on Christmas morning. Since then manufacturers seem to have done a better job of anticipating the Christmas rush for their products, but shortages still happen. You may find that you need to search lots of shops for a popular Christmas gift. To save you some frustration, try ringing stores rather than visiting them in person. Then, if they have the gift you’re looking for, ask them to hold one for you. Don’t expect them to hold it forever - you need to get there as fast as possible to collect it.

If you think your kids are going to want a popular Christmas gift, then get in early. Find out way before December 24th what they’d like, and look for it then. I’m not talking a day or two early, by the way - a few weeks at least, and preferably in November! By asking early you may even be able to buy the product at the first store you go to, because the product hasn’t had time to become the most popular Christmas gift and sell out yet! Finding out what your kids want early also means that you may be able to order it online and save yourself some money. You don’t want to be scanning the auction listings at eBay two days before Christmas to find the gift, because you’ll pay heaps more than retail price if it can’t be found in the stores any more.

Remember, too, that your child’s most special gift may in fact be one that nobody else has even thought of. It might not be on a popular toys list online, or in a “gift ideas for Christmas” supplement in your newspaper. So take the time to find out what your child wants, and if you’re lucky, it will be easy to find and you won’t have the hassle of searching frantically for it at the last minute.

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